Tuesday, April 12, 2016
Most people I talk to about body language seem to have their main interest set in finding out the flirting signals of the opposite sex
Of course me being such the Casanova that I am know all about this :P ... Okay I'm not much of a practiced person in this area but I'm good at observing others doing it (only difference between stalking and research is a pen and paper) so there's a few things I've seen. In the interaction between males and females something funny always occurs. When guys notice girls they find attractive they will subtly straighten their backs to appear taller, suck in their guts and expand their chests - this isn't as noticeable at parties where everyone is dressed up, but try going to your local gym's swimming pool, beach or wherever you can see people at their most vulnerable and exposed. This behaviour is due to the simple fact that what is generally considered "hot" or "sexy" is our gender differences, for instance, men try to highlight their stature and muscles while women will draw attention to their femininity such as their cleavage, long hair (by touching/fixing it), crossing their legs and narrowing them to emphasize their hips, to uses of the sideways headposition to expose the vulnerable and delicate neck, and so forth.